You’ve held everything together for years—now something isn’t working anymore.

Counselling for men over 40 navigating trauma, loss, or life collapse.

You may be used to getting on with things. Being the one others rely on. Keeping everything steady, even when it’s difficult.

But something has shifted.

A relationship may have ended. Work might feel overwhelming or empty. Old experiences are resurfacing. Or there’s a growing sense that life isn’t how it should be—and you’re not sure how to change it.

You don’t have to keep carrying this on your own.

I offer confidential online counselling for men over 40 who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward. This is a space to talk openly, make sense of what’s going on, and begin to rebuild in a way that feels right for you.

This might be you if:

  • You feel stuck after trauma, loss, or a major life change

  • A relationship breakdown has left you questioning everything

  • You’ve spent years holding things together—but now you feel exhausted

  • You find it hard to talk about what’s going on, even with people close to you

  • You feel numb, disconnected, or quietly overwhelmed

  • You’re thinking about starting over—but don’t know where to begin

If any of this resonates, you’re not alone—and things can change.

What I can help you with

I provide online counselling support for:

  • Trauma and unresolved past experiences

  • Relationship breakdown, separation, and loss

  • Stress, burnout, and emotional exhaustion

  • Life transitions and starting again later in life

  • Feeling stuck, lost, or without direction

  • Men’s mental health and emotional wellbeing

How counselling can help

Counselling gives you a space to slow things down and properly look at what’s going on—without judgement, pressure, or expectation.

Together, we can:

  • Make sense of difficult thoughts and emotions

  • Understand how past experiences may still be affecting you

  • Reduce overwhelm and regain a sense of control

  • Work through decisions about your future

  • Help you feel more like yourself again

This isn’t about quick fixes. It’s about creating real, lasting change at a pace that works for you.

My approach is designed to give you focus stability, and measurable progress:

  1. Initial Consultation - Understand your challenges and goals

  2. Sessions that you direct - as you are the expert of yourself, it is understood that you know yourself best. Using a person-centred approach, I will be with you on your journey to help understand what the difficulties may be and explore with you a way forward that feels the right thing for you.

  3. Ongoing Support - Build long-term strategies to move forward confidently

If you are searching for a non-judgmental and safe space to explore your innermost feelings, you have found a space where you can do just that.

Book a free 20-minute call. No pressure, just a conversation

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Forge and Faculty Counselling

Counselling for men over 40 who feel stuck after trauma, loss, or life collapse - rebuild clarity, confidence, and direction

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